Anonymous asked:
I love the fact you’re bitching about money and loneliness and what not. But you manage to go out a lot. Fucking pathetic. You’re cancer to society and you deserve all the bad shit that happens to you. You dumbass whore, you even fail at having and OF
So going out has something to do with lonelinesses and money? Have you never heard of the phrase alone in a crowded route? You can struggle with both so much and still all you see is what I decide to share, so if I am feeling lonely, that means I’m genuinely feeling lonely and going out doesn’t make me not lonely lmao. And ask for money, my financial situation has legitimately nothing to do with going out… The only time I ever go out is if someone is offering to pay or I get free drinks which is why I only go to one bar ever… so not so sure what your point is. There’s absolutely nothing pathetic with going out, I have such a hard time living by myself and my depression and everything that I’ve been going through that if I choose to go out and have fun, while not spending any money then there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that, you may call it pathetic but I’m calling it self care. I feel so bad that’s how you feel and think.
And the cherry on top of the cake, I cancer to society? That’s a little extreme… It seems to me that you have some very very pent-up aggression towards someone, maybe even yourself, and you’re taking it out on me. I’m sorry for whatever you’re going through. I know that you’re not sorry for any of the things that I go through, but I have empathy and sympathy. 
And as for OF, I am not a failure in any way shape or form, I’ve been taking things to the next level and securing things the best that I can in the situation that I’m in. And being in the top 15% of the whole website, gives me a lot of help. But I’m really proud of myself because I don’t think that most people would be alive in my situation. So I know you want to bring me down and that’s the whole point of this message, but you didn’t. I’m so proud of myself and my growth and everything I’ve been thru. I’m a survivor. I really really hope that you get the help you need and learn that, the Internet is such a small sliver of what you see if someone’s life and to invade someone safe space with negativities and evil messages is a very sad way to spend your time. I’ll be sending positive energy your way.
Obviously the health officials did not talk to anyone even loosely affiliated with an actual school. For reasons big or small, terrible or sympathetic, parents send children to school sick all the time.
Schools have spent decades encouraging nonsensical levels of attendance, rewarding kids who don’t take a single day off all term/semester/year, and even punishing kids who take “too much” time off sick. Kids who actually get ill enough to stay home miss out on fun things and “prizes” and awards, because going to school with the flu (or almost anything else) is considered right, good, and necessary.
Then a pandemic comes along that solidly half the population insists is “just the flu” and you think people are going to forget that you indoctrinated them to believe that if they were capable of being conscious (and sometimes not even then) they should be in school? (And later, in work - this is at least part of the point of this stuff, training you to work while sick).
To say nothing of the simple fact that parents are frequently without childcare options and are forced to be in work even if they should be isolating. That’s also a huge problem.
my school district used to regularly remind us that they would take us and our parents to court if we had too many “unexcused” absences. my middle brother actually had it happen to him when his mental illness caused him to miss too many days. the way schools fixate on attendance is absolutely going to get people killed.
